Lessons Learned : 9781430322245 : 19 Mar 2011 : Life is a classroom and people, circumstances and situations are our teachers. If we don't learn a lesson the first time, we will be presented with another chance to learn. Understanding this process from personal experience, Wharton offers a moving, sometimes gritty, but thoroughly entertaining memoir of her relationships with men and the lessons learned from these relationships. Some "lessons" you'll learn: The Devil Loves Church Too . Never Recycle Men . This Is Not As Good As It Gets Each chapter has "tools" to help you understand the lesson including: Lesson In-Depth, Gift, Provoking Thought and Scripture. Carmin Wharton is a writer, motivational speaker, and entrepreneur. She lives in Tampa, Florida.