As I read emFinding Herem, I ache for the woman in this epistolary collection, and for myself a woman also on this mending journey trusting the psyche and belly of my forties, not pregnant and not even almost flat, to be enough. Through meticulously relayed moments of real life-yoga pants and gym glitz, eradication of time barriers synchronizing what was and what is, Kristie Williams narrates the way we hold all the identities we've worn. The way we sometimes slog ahead heavy with doubt until realizing the only way to anywhere worth going means going back. Retrieving and praising the most sacred dear parts of ourselves we left behind is the only path to trusting who we have become.pstrong-Angela Dribbenstrong Author of emEvery GirlempbrpemFinding Herem is one woman's journey to define herself on her own terms. It is a peek into the mind of a complex woman who works to overcome other's inability to see that we are all disabled by flawed perceptions. We are human. We are welcomed. We are