My Son Wears Heels : The University of Wisconsin Press : 9780299310608 : 0299310604 : 30 Sep 2016 : In 1992, Julie Tarney&;s only child, Harry, told her, &;Inside my head I&;m a girl.&; He was two years old. Julie had no idea what that meant. She felt disoriented. Wasn&;t it her role to encourage and support her child? Surely she had to set some limits to his self-expression&;or did she? Would he be bullied? Could she do the right thing? What was the right thing? The internet was no help, because there was no internet. And there were zero books for a mom scrambling to understand a toddler who had definite ideas about his gender, regardless of how Nature had endowed him. Terms such as transgender, gender nonconforming, and gender creative were rare or nonexistent. There were, however, mainstream experts who theorized that a &;sissy&; boy was the result of a domineering mother. Julie couldn&;t believe it. She didn&;t want to care what her neighbors thought, but she did care. &;Dominee