Stains on the Sofa : Lulu.com : 9781329985049 : 1329985044 : 19 Mar 2016 : Stains on the Sofa is a humorous memoir of a single female executive's struggle to tiptoe through dating again in her post-divorce thirties and early forties. From on-line dating, to setups, to hook ups, and accidental meetings, the book portrays the reality of the struggle to find love for the single career Mom! The book also explores today's woman's sexuality with humor and honesty, breaking down the myth that only men engage in "locker room talk". James attaches a wicked and graphic sense of humor to the pages, and draws her friends and family into her exploits while revealing some of their dating disasters as well.